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Does the Bible Say a Woman Must Marry Her Rapist?

Deuteronomy 22:28-29 says, "If a man meets a virgin who is not betrothed, and seizes her and lies with her, and they are found, then the man who lay with her shall give to the father of the young woman fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife, because he has violated her. He may not divorce her all his days."

Whoa. So the Bible says a woman has to marry her rapist? No, that's not what's going on here.

Ever heard of a shotgun wedding? It's a marriage arranged at the end of a father's shotgun, to avoid the embarrassment of premarital sex between his daughter and some young dude who couldn't keep his pants zipped. This law is kind of like that.

Some Bible translations (like the NIV and CSB) use the word rape in this passage, but that's an inaccurate reading. In this context, "seizing" a woman means the offending man took something that did not belong to him, another man's daughter. "Violated" does not always mean rape, …

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